We should never try to make people in our image. We are not the masters of other people's lives and destinies. We are not to live our lives through others. People are unique and wonderful. People need the freedom to explore who they are without judgement, without sneers, without unnecessary pressure.
We all are on a journey of exploration about who we are and where we fit in. My life cannot be transferred on to someone else. I cannot force someone to look at life through my eyes. They have their own eyes, goals, dreams and fears. They need the love and support to walk their own path with me there as support and love. Love has no BUTS. Love has no conditions. I love you. Full stop.
When we try to force our ideals on another, we restrict them from living their life to the full. When we try to make a clone of ourselves through another, we are insulting them and denying them the life they have.
When we try to control others we are playing a game of power which ultimately magnifies our own insecurities.
So spread your wings and cherish who you are. You are wonderfully unique and remember, none of us are perfect; none of us have all the answers; none of us have finished the journey of identity.
Peace.
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